Tuesday, April 10, 2007

Asking For What You Want



Over the years I have interviewed hundreds of people about what they are looking for when they are single. Some are able to explain very clearly what they are looking for, others have never had the chance to verbally voice it. Being conscious minded and aware that words have power I use this part of the interview to put out into the universe a very simple request; the perfect mate.

When looking for love it is very important to ask for what you want so the universe can deliver it. I am not speaking of picky preferences here. I am speaking of the way you want to feel when you are with someone. So to start the process think of how you would like to feel when you are with the right person. Once you have that feeling try describing the important traits or experiences that allow in that feeling. For example it may be a sense of humor that you relate too or a certain level of intelligence you need to feel sparks. Below are some questions to ask yourself before you ask for what you want.

What is my lifestyle?
What personalities do I enjoy the most?
What type of relationship am I ready for?
Do I believe this can happen?

Write it down. Read it out loud. Then let it go. And see what happens....